There are many ways to make sex more enjoyable, including toys, lubes, and various devices. Among these extra methods is using furniture specially designed for specific sexual activities. For example, you want a piece of furniture that pushes your partner’s ass up if you’re engaging in oral sex. If it’s penetrative sex, you want a piece of furniture that puts them in a great position for deeper penetration.
Deploying sex furniture for sexual activities is not always a choice due to the high cost or unavailability of a piece of furniture. There are several creative ideas you can explore for DIY sex furniture. Whether it’s transforming your old piece of furniture or making a new one, there’s no shortage of low-cost choices.
In this article, we’ll cover fun ways to get yourself homemade sex furniture without visiting a store or spending a fortune.
Restraining Hardware and Restraint Tables
The most common BDSM practice is restraining your partner via ropes, cuffs, chains, or other restraints. A specific table or chair can help this process. The special furniture provides a good space to attach relevant restraint kits for a complete bondage experience. Even if you don’t consider yourself particularly kinky or into bondage play, restraint can still be exciting/erotic to explore.
Attaching handcuffs to your DIY sex table can provide an erotic way to restrain your partner, or be restrained. Aside from creating an intimate sexual experience, using handcuffs with your sex furniture leaves the submissive vulnerable and improves deep trust in your relationship. Ankle cuffs also work wonders when attached to sex furniture. With your partner restrained, you can either have sex with them or just pleasure them with a vibrator, or a whole host of other sex toys.
DIY BDSM Sex Bed
You don’t need to create a new bed for BDSM. A good idea is to upgrade your bed by adding some rings to four corners of the furniture. All you need to attach the rings are a screwdriver and screws. The rings add kinkiness to your bed and get it ready for action. The attached rings can accommodate handcuffs, ankle cuffs, and ropes for exciting bondage play.
If you don’t have bed posts you can use the lower posts of the bed, or even the rods of the metal frame to attach the ropes to. Another easy option is to use a carabiner on each rope you can easily attach and detach various lengths of rope or other devices easily without having to retie everything each time.
Wedge Pillow for Sex
If you’re thinking about adding some extras to your sex furniture, wedge pillows are great options. A wedge pillow is usually used to elevate the lower or upper body to improve circulation and relieve pressure on some areas. Also, it’s typically made of polyester fiberfill and foam. Not only is a wedge pillow ideal for sleep, but it’s also perfect for sex. You can use existing pillows for this, or build your own with foam or cushions.
There are different types of wedge pillows. For your sex furniture, you should be most concerned about flat bottomed pillows that feature a contoured or sloped top and a flat bottom. This type of wedge pillow provides a good incline to stack the hips in the perfect spinal alignment for penetration.
To get the best out of a wedge pillow on your sex bed, you can have your partner lie on their stomach in such a way that the pillow’s contour pushes their ass up. You can then penetrate them doggy style. Alternatively, you can have your partner lie on their back in such a way that you can penetrate them in the missionary position.
You must purchase or build the right wedge pillow for your sex bed. You should consider the pillow’s incline degree, material, and price carefully before making your purchase. Ensure that you’re satisfied with these factors and you have the ideal wedge pillow.
BDSM Spanking Bench
If you’re a huge fan of BDSM, then you know spanking adds some excitement to bondage play. If you’re willing to experiment, you’ll also find spanking quite thrilling. Getting to spank your partner using a spanking bench can make things even more exciting. Of course, you can find spanking benches in adult stores but if you don’t mind building your furniture, you can come up with a homemade DIY spanking bench.
If you’re not a carpenter your best bet is to start with an existing bench, and add the other supports for the arms and legs. Once side should generally be higher than the other, so the person on the bench can lift their head up if they want to. The longer the bench the more comfortable it will be.
Any wooden bench should do, but it’s essential to be sure that the wood is properly sanded so nobody gets any splinters or injuries. Adding padding to the limb and body surfaces is a great way to add more comfort to your DIY spanking bench.
BDSM Furniture Safety
Testing your homemade sex furniture is probably something you’ll naturally do but we still think it’s quite important to mention that you do it. The last thing you want is to have your partner on a poorly finished sex chair that could collapse suddenly. The best way to avoid this risk is to test the furniture before use. Check it carefully and test how it feels sitting down or lying down on it.
